After waiting a week, I finally got the opportunity to talk to Thomas, my secondary boyfriend, about his friend, Max, dating me. His response was not a surprise, but a HUGE disappointment. While laying in bed, he covered his head like a small child & said, "I am well aware that Max wants to date you. You think we have something to talk about with Max, but we do not. I have nothing to do with that situation." I was speechless.
As a healthy polyamorous person, communication is the cornerstone of my world. In one moment, he completely disassociated me & seemingly went into denial. I am completely happy with my actions. I did what was necessary for me to be comfortable with the situation.
I am not sure what to do with Thomas now, except I have downgraded him to booty call. Perhaps Max will fill his spot. Perhaps not. It will be fun finding out one way of the other.
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