Email Address Set Up & Etiquette

Before you begin finding a reputable sexworker, you have to set up a few things to protect yourself & your privacy.  First, create an email address that is specifically for whoremongering.  Do not be a dumb ass & use your current personal, school, or business email address.

Yes, I know what you are thinking.

1.  "Maybe she will feel more comfortable if she sees I am a legitimate business owner & therefore, my business email address will help in that endevour".

2.  "I have not used my current email address for anything important & therefore, there is no need to get another one."

WRONG!  I had one who emailed me from his old college email account, after he had long since graduated.  When I did a search on Google for anything connected to his email address, nothing popped up.  However, when I went to the school's website & popped in his email address to search EVERYTHING popped up, from his full name to his birth date, as well as all the papers for which he had received awards.

Just assume all of your old email addresses are linked to something you do not want a complete stranger, doing something illegal to know.  It's that simple.  Just get a new email address, specifically for whoring.  My favorite email program happens to be Gmail.

Once you set up your account, be sure to use a fake name when you register.  Make is sound legitimate, such as "Richard Evans", not "Pussy Licker" (Yes, I really did get that one).  Make the email address sound legitimate too, such as "MatthewHarrington@gmail.com", not "IPay4Pussy@gmail.com"

Remember, reputable providers are looking for signs & reasons not to see you.  Do not give them one.

In your email, be very polite & not a horny dumb ass, with poor grammar, who alludes to sex and money.  Something like..

"Hello.  My name is Mike.  I recently saw your wonderful reviews on The Erotic Review.  I am very interested in meeting you & I noticed, based upon reading your website, that you prefer emailing, rather than talking on the phone.  I wanted to know what's the next thing I need to do, in order to visit."

You see that?  Nice pleasant introduction, giving her a compliment, alluding to her website, without bringing up sex or money.  Mike would be good to go in this situation. :) 

James & Pictures

James got the opportunity to meet & interview the new sexworker yesterday.  The meeting did not go, as well as planned.  It just reiterates the need for women to be in charge of agencies, because she felt unconformable with a man teaching her the ropes.  So, in the future I will be the sexworker's main connection, rather than James or Richard.

Today, James is taking pictures of the new sexworker.  Hopefully, I can have the images added to her website, by this evening, with her 1st visit taking place in three days.

Poly Meetup Fail

We recently went to a poly meetup, in order to find more attractive women who would be interested in being sex workers.  I have find that many times those in the alternative lifestyle community are more likely to take a walk on the wild side for money, than vanilla people.  We also went to try & find James a local girlfriend.  We failed on both accounts.

Unfortunately, there were no women who were more than averagely attractive.  Also, because James & I are in a healthy long term polyamorous relationship, we are often the center of attention at the meetings, with people asking of lots of questions.  This does not give us a lot of time to focus on finding an additional partner for James.  We will try again in the future.

Sexworker Discussion Group

Yesterday, James asked if I wanted to go to one of our poly group discussions in November, featuring a conversation on sexworkers.  I said the concept sounded interesting.  However, I did not know how he wanted to maneuver the situation, consider I am a sexworker.  Did he want to go just to listen or did he want us to participate in the conversation, as a sexwork & her lifemate.  When he said, "You are welcome to openly talk about your profession, because I have always supported you", I got warm fuzzies.  It is an incredible experience to be involved with such a confident man who is not only completely accepting of who I am & not to be challenged negatively by me. I <3 James.

The Rumor Mill

The sexworker industry is a funny little beast. If you do not feed its need for information, it will create it & make it seem factual. For example, I never gave any information about another industry worker. Once I was arrested, I lawyered up immediately. I refused to answer any questions & was left alone by the cops. Once I was released from the holding cell, after twelve hours, I was never contacted by the cops or the prosecution. I never gave them any information about the original whore who was arrested.  I had too much respect for either lady to help make their lives even more uncomfortable.

The best thing about being arrested & removing me from the industry was not having to deal with all of the rumors that are constantly flying about. To foster that, I refused to even look at the message boards or answer my emails. I returned to a wonderful state of dullness. There is a lot to be said for dullness.