Virginia's Pot Use

I found out today that Virginia, my 16-year-old daughter, has been smoking pot, by way of pictures of her doing so on the internet.  I am not opposed to adults smoking pot in the privacy of their own homes.  However, because I live in a state where pot use is illegal, in order for me not to go to jail for contributing to the delinquency of a minor, I have to stop her usage, using pee tests & taking away her tech stuff if she fails.  I have given her 30 days to clean out her system.

What is most disturbing is her inability to comprehend how not being discrete, by putting the pictures on the net, could affect her ability to get into collage or a job.  She just needs to behave, until she is 18-years-old.  Once she reaches that age, I am not longer legally responsible for her actions.  Until then, I have to battle every day to keep my sanity.

I am really scared

The prison of the inmate who has been inappropriately writing my 16-year-old daughter called me this morning.  They said that my request for the inmate to stop calling and mailing my child has gone through the correct channels.  However, the gentleman said he was unsure as to whether or not the person who actually talked to the inmate put my name in the conversation, although I specifically asked that they did not, out of fear for my safety.  I am really scared & shall remain so, until I know my life is not in danger.

Union/ Whore Tour

After the release of the website, last month's organizing meeting was the largest we have had, with 20 people attending, including some employees who had been with the company more than 10 years!  So I am feeling positive about the whole organizing process.  We have another meeting in two weeks.  At this point, it looks like it will be even bigger.

James said I am doing such an excellent job that I should ask for a full time paid position from the international headquarters of the union & travel around the country, teaching others how to successfully organize with the use of the internet.  Of course after hearing that, my whore business sense kicked in & I thought I could couple the union travel with a whore tour.  Brilliant...

Killer's Letter

I found out recently that Virginia, my 16-year-old daughter, has visited & received love letters from an inmate.  When I did a search for him online, I found out that he killed a teenager & attempted to kill another in a gang murder.  I know that he she went to see him in prison, because inside the card was a picture of her & his family, surrounding him.

I am heartbroken on so many different levels.  First, we do not have a history of gang activity in my family at all & therefore, her being comfortable in such an environment is unacceptable.  Next, the letters he sent her were totally inappropriate for a 16-year-old to receive, including the picture of a dog with an erection on the front of the card.  Then, the only persona who could have gotten into the prison is the mother of the inmate, by wrongfully claiming she belonged to her, thereby making my daughter related.  Finally, after chatting with my family therapist we decided that I cannot have a conversation with anyone involved, including my daughter, the inmate or the inmate's mother, because the inmate has my home address & could do us harm if we take away his "toy".

I did contact the prison & spoke to the head of security & even he was stunned, saying they they rarely receive information like mine.  He said he would prevent the inmate from sending or receiving any mail from my daughter & stop her from visiting him in the prison.  He also agreed he would do so, without involving my name, by saying that "after a mail inspection" they came across the letter, which I returned to the prison.

After issues like this, although I love my daughter, I cannot wait to disassociate myself from her, as we had planned to do, when she turns 18-years-old.  Sadly, now it's a matter of life or death.

Mainstream Classes

I have decided to go more mainstream with my whore skills, by creating classes to teach to groups & couples, such as fellatio, cunnilingus, female squirting, anal sex, etc.  My best friend & assistant, Richard, is very excited about the thought.  Being the entrepreneur he is, he pictures national tours, dungeon parties, swing parties, videos, etc.

In order to get started, I will begin to create a blog with filler entries to bring people from all around the country to my website, which he will design. In the meantime, what kinds of classes would you like to see, from a professional sexworker?

Relationship Ends with Max

It seems that my relationship with Max has come to an end, as fast as it began.  Because of the chaos of his family & legal fights, he has had no time for me, cancelling dates on a regular basis.  We both agreed that we could see a future for us, but not right now.  So, for the time being things have come to a stand still.  Although disappointed, I am not angry about the situation, considering I had not become emotionally attached to Max.

Cock Blocking by Thomas

As you recall, prior to my relationship beginning with Max, I went to my secondary boyfriend, Thomas, to see if me dating an acquaintance of his would make him uncomfortable.  Rather than having a conversation with me, he literally covered his face, with a blanket, & refused to discuss it, giving me the impression he was apathetic to the situation.

Guess what?!  I was completely wrong.  One evening, last week Max & Thomas found themselves in the same bar.  When Max entered, Thomas was sitting downstairs.  Feeling uncomfortable, Max avoided Thomas, by going upstairs.  Within 20 minutes, Thomas joined him.  

Knowing that Max had a date with me later that evening, Max told Thomas he had to leave to see me.  However, Thomas was not satisfied with that answer, so he started buying Max shots.  As the night grew longer, Max decided it was time to leave.  Heading home, he went outside to the main street & then turned the corner.  When he paused to light a cigarette, Thomas joined him, asking him to return to he bar.  He then bluntly said, "No, I am going to see Amanda".

Later, when I met Max & he described the evening events, I tried to come up with all sorts of reasons that Thomas may have behaved that way, such as he just wanted to hang out.  However, Max quickly corrected me, saying "He was cock blocking me, plain & simple"

Sigh...I wonder where all of this is going.

Who is Going to be the Victim?

Max & I have been with each other frequently over the last week, without having penetration sex.  Penetration sex is my key boundary, when having a romantic relationship with someone, knowing that I become emotionally attached to partners, when I do.  We have done everything else.  :)

After an hour long blowjob, without using my hands, Max said "That by far is the best blow job of my life."  I don't think he had much choice, consider I am a professional sexworker who only does blowjobs.  Furthermore, he wants to gets his penis inside my vagina, so I doubt he would say "That's horrible".

For Max's part, he loves eating pussy.  I swear to god, I have never met a guy who could do that for 45 minutes, without his jaw falling off, or without my twat going numb.  He accomplished both.

So, that's our on going battle.  Who is going to be the victim, since each of us love performing oral so much?

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Organizing Website Goes Live

I finally released the website for my labor organizing campaign & absolutely nothing negative has happened.  In fact, it has been very empowering, with the use of facebook & twitter.  I am able to have anonymous conversations with everyone who has questions about the organizing, which numbers around a dozen daily.

I cannot imagine how difficult it would be to organize without the internet.  Talking to people over the course of several years must have been incredibly cumbersome.  Now, I can reach out to whomever I choose almost immediately.  Thank you, internet god!