Good-bye, Thomas

I am not longer seeing my booty call, Thomas.  Unfortunately, I no longer have any respect for him, as a result of his dog, of all things.  One night a couple of months ago, I was visiting him overnight & I noticed that his dog was not making much noise.  When I asked about the dog, he replied that she was sick, not eating for several days at a time.  I then said I would be happy to take her to the veterinarian for him, if he did not have the time. When I returned the next week.  The dog was completely silent.  When I asked about her again, he said she had died earlier in the week.

I was stunned.  Because of his pride & his need for privacy, he had not taken the dog to the vet, nor had he asked me to help.  It was then, I realized we were not even friends.  I also realized that as a sex partner, he was lacking, particularity because it took me a two hour round trip to reach him.  He not worth the effort any longer.

The only awkward thing that will occur from time to to time is Thomas being my boss.  It doesn't happen often & when it does, it's not for a long period of time.  For my part, I have not mentioned my disdain for him.  He will not ask, because that would be something that would concern a friend, not a booty call.

Naughty Twat Smell

I am going to share something embarrassing with you, as a lesson for other women.  For years, after reading "The Complete Idiot's Guide to Being a Cheapskate", I stopped wearing underwear.  The premise of the book is that they are unnecessary & cost money to purchase & wash.  So, for years I did not wear them.  Then, for years, my twat smelled.  The kind of smell that was evident, when I squatted, after being a wrench wench in the heat all day.  

I figured it was natural, with all that sweat going on down there.  Whenever I had sex, I always jumped into the bathtub, so it was not a big deal.  However, by the morning, my twat smelled again.  This went on for years, until I started dated another chick.  I noticed that her twat was wonderfully musty in the morning, without an offensive odor.

I decided it was time to do something, so I got some over the counter yeast infection stuff & stuffed it into my twat over night.  It fixed it immediately.  So, I returned to my regularly scheduled program of not wearing panties, not making the connection.

Guess what?  It came back.  So, last night I got more over the counter yeast infection stuff & stuffed it into my  twat for the second time. I also bought some fun underwear, with the Muppets & superheroes.

Hopefully, this will take care of things.  Otherwise, I am heading to the doctor & I hate doctor's rooting around in my twat!

The Caribbean & James

James, my primary & nesting partner, & I have decided to move to the Caribbean, once my daughter, Virginia, turns 18-years-old, in June of 2014.  However, we will not make a firm decision, until May.  So, for the time being, I am in limbo, thinking about the islands.

There are several things that could delay our move.  Money is always a factor.  According to the government website, we should have at least $15K to move.  Also, if James finds permanent full-time work, with benefits, where we currently are, the move could be delayed by years.  However, even with all of those variables, there is one even more pressing.  James & I haven't had sex in over a year now & I am unwilling to move with him, after July, unless that changes.

I have asked James for more details on his lack of sexual inclination towards me, such as to whether or not he still find me sexually attractive.  He says he does.  I have asked him about possibly having a low testosterone level & seeking medical attention.  He says he does not.  What he says is that he will have a sexual inclination towards me & then there is a disconnect between that point & when he acts upon it.

He is currently dating a new woman named Jessica.  Although they have not had sex, he is certainly pumped for it.  My hope is that once they have sex, that energy will be brought to my relationship with him.

I have explained to James my desire to have sex with him & the time frame I am working with.  Since then, he has become more verbally romantic & seems to be compensating for not having sex with me.  Unfortunately, in the end, words will not be good enough.