James, my primary boyfriend, is in the process of getting divorced. If everything goes as planned,
it should be finalized on Oct. 1, 2010. The process has been
surprisingly amicable. Once they went into counseling, James, finally
told his wife the polyamorous lifestyle he wanted to live. Sadly, the
lifestyle he wants to live was not the one he & his wife had agreed
to when they got engaged. Although he told her he preferred to keep his
marriage, as well as have additional romantic partners (not just
sexual) during the therapy session, she rightly did not accept his
philosophy. Why should she?
Although
I have never spoken to her, she has my deepest respect. I was very
proud of her for standing up to him & telling him she would not
accept that arrangement. Many women would have blamed themselves or
worse. In addition, she has help to create the man that I love.
Without her, there would be no him.
I
can only wish her the very best. I was completely charmed by her
desire to have their marriage of 25-years annulled in the Catholic
Church. Being a good little agnostic, I wasn't even aware they still did
that. Perhaps her intentions are to remarry. What a wonderful
thought. I hope she finds someone who is worthy of her time, energy
& love. I also hope she finds someone who has her same lovestyle
whether, monogamous or otherwise.
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