Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Multi Orgasmic



One thing a lot of men are jealous about in women is their sexual stamina. The ability of many of us have to be multi orgasmic. Now don’t get me wrong, I know some guys are able to go multiple rounds, some certainly are, but not most. Most fall into the “One and you’re done” category. Now as long as they can last as long as I need them too, it’s usually not an issue if they can only cum once, but given the choice, I would of course always choose a guy that can match me orgasm for orgasm.

I don’t mind if they need to rest in between for 10-15 minutes, that is a good length of time for everyone to calm down, catch their breath and get ready for the next round. I don’t need to keep going with no breaks, but when they can keep going with you, I just find it a more pleasurable match. Even young ones are not always able to go round after round. I’m not sure what makes one able to continue on and another be out after one, but multi guys will always be my faves for sure!

Women luckily just do not have the same problems, staying hard, so we can’t relate since we have never had that issue. As long as I’ve caught my breath, I can keep going, but it can get to a numb state down there that stimulation gets difficult to bring you over that orgasmic edge. I can always cum, even if not horny, though it can take effort, sometimes a lot, but I can. I mentioned that to a guy and he couldn’t even imagine cumming if not horny, since they kind of have to be hard, and if not horny, then they are not hard, they have more variables than women do to overcome. More factors at play. Though I have talked to guys that can cum when not totally hard, ones that have erectile dysfunction problems. They really have their bodies working against them in a way women simply do not. Poor bastards!

Happy Samhain

Author: Peg Aloi
Posted: October 1st. 1996
Times Viewed: 273,526

Hallowe'en has its origins in the British Isles. While the modern tradition of trick or treat developed in the U. S., it too is based on folk customs brought to this country with Irish immigrants after 1840. Since ancient times in Ireland, Scotland, and England, October 31st has been celebrated as a feast for the dead, and also the day that marks the new year. Mexico observes a Day of the Dead on this day, as do other world cultures. In Scotland, the Gaelic word "Samhain" (pronounced "SAW-win" or "SAW-vane") means literally "summer's end."

This holiday is also known as All Hallows Eve ("hallow" means "sanctify") ; Hallowtide; Hallowmass; Hallows; The Day of the Dead; All Soul's Night; All Saints' Day (both on November 1st) .

For early Europeans, this time of the year marked the beginning of the cold, lean months to come; the flocks were brought in from the fields to live in sheds until spring. Some animals were slaughtered, and the meat preserved to provide food for winter. The last gathering of crops was known as "Harvest Home, " celebrated with fairs and festivals.

In addition to its agriculture significance, the ancient Celts also saw Samhain as a very spiritual time. Because October 31 lies exactly between the Autumnal Equinox and the Winter Solstice, it is theorized that ancient peoples, with their reliance on astrology, thought it was a very potent time for magic and communion with spirits. The "veil between the worlds" of the living and the dead was said to be at its thinnest on this day; so the dead were invited to return to feast with their loved ones; welcomed in from the cold, much as the animals were brought inside. Ancient customs range from placing food out for dead ancestors, to performing rituals for communicating with those who had passed over.

Communion with the dead was thought to be the work of witches and sorcerers, although the common folk thought nothing of it. Because the rise of the Church led to growing suspicion of the pagan ways of country dwellers, Samhain also became associated with witches, black cats ("familiars" or animal friends) , bats (night creatures) , ghosts and other "spooky" things...the stereotype of the old hag riding the broomstick is simply a caricature; fairy tales have exploited this image for centuries.

Divination of the future was also commonly practiced at this magically-potent time; since it was also the Celtic New Year, people focused on their desires for the coming year. Certain traditions, such as bobbing for apples, roasting nuts in the fire, and baking cakes which contained tokens of luck, are actually ancient methods of telling fortunes.

So What About Those Jack-O-Lanterns?

Other old traditions have survived to this day; lanterns carved out of pumpkins and turnips were used to provide light on a night when huge bonfires were lit, and all households let their fires go out so they could be rekindled from this new fire; this was believed to be good luck for all households. The name "Jack-O-Lantern" means "Jack of the Lantern, " and comes from an old Irish tale. Jack was a man who could enter neither heaven nor hell and was condemned to wander through the night with only a candle in a turnip for light. Or so goes the legend...

But such folk names were commonly given to nature spirits, like the "Jack in the Green, " or to plants believed to possess magical properties, like "John O' Dreams, " or "Jack in the Pulpit." Irish fairy lore is full of such references. Since candles placed in hollowed-out pumpkins or turnips (commonly grown for food and abundant at this time of year) would produce flickering flames, especially on cold nights in October, this phenomenon may have led to the association of spirits with the lanterns; and this in turn may have led to the tradition of carving scary faces on them. It is an old legend that candle flames which flicker on Samhain night are being touched by the spirits of dead ancestors, or "ghosts."

Okay, What about the Candy?

"Trick or treat" as it is practiced in the U. S. is a complex custom believed to derive from several Samhain traditions, as well as being unique to this country. Since Irish immigrants were predominantly Catholic, they were more likely to observe All Soul's Day. But Ireland's folk traditions die hard, and the old ways of Samhain were remembered. The old tradition of going door to door asking for donations of money or food for the New Year's feast, was carried over to the U. S. from the British Isles. Hogmanay was celebrated January 1st in rural Scotland, and there are records of a "trick or treat" type of custom; curses would be invoked on those who did not give generously; while those who did give from their hearts were blessed and praised. Hence, the notion of "trick or treat" was born (although this greeting was not commonly used until the 1930's in the U. S.) . The wearing of costumes is an ancient practice; villagers would dress as ghosts, to escort the spirits of the dead to the outskirts of the town, at the end of the night's celebration.

By the 1920's, "trick or treat" became a way of letting off steam for those urban poor living in crowded conditions. Innocent acts of vandalism (soaping windows, etc.) gave way to violent, cruel acts. Organizations like the Boy Scouts tried to organize ways for this holiday to become safe and fun; they started the practice of encouraging "good" children to visit shops and homes asking for treats, so as to prevent criminal acts. These "beggar's nights" became very popular and have evolved to what we know as Hallowe'en today.

What Do Modern Witches Do at Hallowe'en?

It is an important holiday for us. Witches are diverse, and practice a variety of traditions. Many of us use this time to practice forms of divination (such as tarot or runes) . Many Witches also perform rituals to honor the dead; and may invite their deceased loved ones to visit for a time, if they choose. This is not a "seance" in the usual sense of the word; Witches extend an invitation, rather than summoning the dead, and we believe the world of the dead is very close to this one. So on Samhain, and again on Beltane (May 1st) , when the veil between the worlds is thin, we attempt to travel between those worlds. This is done through meditation, visualization, and astral projection. Because Witches acknowledge human existence as part of a cycle of life, death and rebirth, Samhain is a time to reflect on our mortality, and to confront our fears of dying.

Some Witches look on Samhain as a time to prepare for the long, dark months of winter, a time of introspection and drawing inward. They may bid goodbye to the summer with one last celebratory rite. They may have harvest feasts, with vegetables and fruits they have grown, or home-brewed cider or mead. They may give thanks for what they have, projecting for abundance through the winter. Still others may celebrate with costume parties, enjoying treats and good times with friends. There are as many ways of observing Samhain as there are Witches in the world!

Peg Aloi

Bio:: Born 10/23/63, Peg is a freelance writer and artists' model, and a Witch of Celtic/Sicilian heritage. She has taught classes in film, literature, writing, herbalism, and calligraphy, and is also a singer, actress, astrologer and perfumer (gotta love that Libra/Scorpio cusp) . As a performer, she has made music with a number of Pagan artists, including MotherTongue (tm) , Urban Myth, and bard Olvardil Prydwyn. She reviews films for the Boston Phoenix, and is Associate Editor of Obsidian Magazine. She loves single malt scotch, apple orchards, Xena, Jethro Tull, and her three grey kitties, Ziggy, Zeus and Trivia.

Drugs & Sex

I finally got around to asking Thomas, my secondary boyfriend, if he would take mushrooms with me, while having sex.  He said, "No."  He went on to say that he does not take drugs & prefers to keep things that way.  His answer was not surprising, although annoying.

In his industry, drugs are everywhere.  People even smoke a joint on their breaks.  I heard that he purchased Extacy from a person in the industry, not knowing the person was in the industry.  That information got back to me & I assumed he would do it for me too.  I alluded to that & he said he has not ever taken Extacy, only cocaine 20 years ago & pot rarely.

I suppose that idea will have to wait.

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Arrogant 19-year-old Irish Boy

Boy: so what did you do in the sex industry

Boy: you still active


Me: web design, pro-domme, phone sex, swing club

hostess, etc


Boy: swing clubs rock


Me:
:)

Boy: hostess so your just the ladie who takes coats


Boy: or wher you the type that get involved lol


Me:
No, I get people to have fun

Me:
I am not a swinger, so no.

Boy: awh pity was gonna ask whens your next meet lol


Me:
:)

Boy: iv been to different swinger parties here and the old milfs love attention from young men same over there i hope ?


Me:
single men are not allowed in swing parties, so that usually is not the case

Boy: obviously or then it not swinging lol, iv a swinging partner fear not


Me:
cool beans

Boy: so do they like attention? lol


Me:
everyone likes attention. I dont find older women to be any more desiring of it

Boy: not even from young lovin' lol


Boy: so what you up to at the mo anyhow


Me:
no, in fact I find that most women are nor into anyone younger than 30.

Boy: awh dam


Me:
:)

Boy: and i was hoping on some milf eating


Me:
uh huh

Boy: well il stay at Irish swinging then lol


Me:
cool beans

Me:
I am surprised you allow into the clubs, considering you are not 21.

Boy: lol


Me:
:)

Me:
lol lol like i said irish women love a young fit man

Me:
young fir man & a child are two different things

Boy: lol lol im not a child. thats illegal im a man with the gear for work in prime


Me:
May I ask you something personal?

Boy: yeah


Me:
are you a virgin?

Boy: lol lol lol lol


Boy: no


Me:
I ask, because you are very arrogant when it comes to your sexuality. I find that most people who talk about it so arrogantly are not having it. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.

Me:
Most people of your age have not had a very meaningful sex life.

Boy: im arrogant in what form. lol im just a straght talker im young fit in good shape and mature women love me


Me:
then why are you on here?

Boy: lol im finished college iv had lots of meaningful love


Me:
okay

Boy: looking for mature women cause they are looser if you dont mind me being rude


Me:
why do you consider them losers?

Boy: looser not losers


Boy: loose as in wild in bet, real good loose pussies being the slang lol


Me:
I see.

Boy: lol im sure


Me:
Well, I wish you the best in finding whatever it is you are looking for.

Boy: lol thanks


Me:
anything else, before I say good-bye?

Boy: lol mail me if your ever in ireland to see if im really a virgin lol lol


Me:
No, thanks.

Really? I don't think so.

Me: I see that you have a change in status to "seeing someone"

Boy: yeah cause too many IMs freeze my computer

Me: what does that have to do with the change in status?

Boy: less people IMing me obviously

Me: that many girls are IMing you, huh?

Boy: lol im cute! lol jk

Me: uh huh. How do you expect people to take interest in you, if you are seeing someone? Why not just turn off your IMs?

Boy: they just have to trust me

Me: uh huh. are you really that naive?

Boy: im just truthful

Me: Uh huh

Me: mostly men contacting you?

Boy: huh

Boy: y

Boy: are you that naive

Me: I have a very hard time believing that so many girls would contact you that it would shut down your system.

Chaos Diverted?

I spent the night with Thomas, my secondary boyfriend.  He gave me no indication he was aware of the email debacle that happened with James, my primary boyfriend, & my whore email account.  In fact, he was more playful that usual.  At this point, I don't think he is aware of anything.  Although that could change at any moment.

In order to cut Thomas off at the pass, I contacted his business assistant,  Joanne, & gave her the scoop.  Because she knows I have gone back to whoring, she laughed.  She said she would just ignore the whole thing & it would probably go away, since both she & Thomas were so busy processing paperwork & invoices when the chaos unfurled.

I am relieved, but still a bit anxious.

Monday, October 29, 2012

God only knows where this one was going...

Boy: you are a very beautiful lady

Me: thank you


Boy: I hope my profile is ok


Me: ok? I am not sure what you mean.


Boy: are you open minded ? may I be open


Boy: my daughter had her girl friend sleep over last night


Me: i did not answer your question.


Boy: ok ?


Me: I am open minded. however, i think discussing things of a sexual nature with a stranger is tacky.


Boy: ok I understand sorry


Me: why are you apologizing?


Boy: dont have anyone to talk too but thanks understand


Boy: I have no wish to be TACKY


Me: cool beans


Me: anything else?


Boy: no thank you


Me: have a good day then. toodles