The Rumor Mill

The sexworker industry is a funny little beast. If you do not feed its need for information, it will create it & make it seem factual. For example, I never gave any information about another industry worker. Once I was arrested, I lawyered up immediately. I refused to answer any questions & was left alone by the cops. Once I was released from the holding cell, after twelve hours, I was never contacted by the cops or the prosecution. I never gave them any information about the original whore who was arrested.  I had too much respect for either lady to help make their lives even more uncomfortable.

The best thing about being arrested & removing me from the industry was not having to deal with all of the rumors that are constantly flying about. To foster that, I refused to even look at the message boards or answer my emails. I returned to a wonderful state of dullness. There is a lot to be said for dullness.

Phone Sex

I have taken up phone sex, as an additional income source. I actually did it quite a bit, prior to the arrest. However, as a result of my income going towards my criminal defense attorney, I have taken it up full-time, during the off season of my manual labor job, which would be July through August & January through February.

 

I work on four different billing platforms, including NiteFlirt, TalkSugar, PhoneEncounters, & a dispatch service, which uses an 800 number. No, I am not going to tell you where you can find my character. That ruins the fantasy.

In the future, I will be sharing the zany world of phone sex, for example, the man who likes to masturbate with ham sandwiches. No, I never could figure that one out. Maybe he’s Jewish!

Game Over

These are the details of my court appearance today. I never actually went into the courtroom. My attorney & the prosecution negotiated in the hallway. I am going to plead guilty to one count, assignation (scheduling appointments for prostitutes); the other three counts will be dropped. I will most likely get parole for two years. After that, I will file to have the parole changed to "parole before judgment". If it is accepted, my record will be expunged after about 4 years. I will serve no jail time. The prosecutions said have fun writing the book.  This is what has been negotiated. So things are pretty much done. However, I do not officially submit my plea, until the beginning of August.

Moving Sale

As I mentioned in a previous blog, I am selling my three bedroom house, I purchased just over a year ago. I LOVE my house. However, I hate house living. Although having a house is the American dream, it certainly was not my dream. My mortgage is bad enough at $2500.00 a month, but the additional cost, energy & time spent in maintenance are simply not worth it to me. So, I will be moving into a studio apartment, costing $850.00 a month, including utilities. The amount I save will be socked away for my retirement. 

I am going to very busy for the next month dealing with going from a large home to a studio apartment. My first job is to have a major moving sale. Not only will I be selling most of the stuff, including the house, I will also be selling my 1972 VW bug. I've gotten great advice about moving sales on the internet (http://www.yardsalequeen.com/yardsale.htm). I am even thinking about talking to my neighbors about joining me, in order to split the costs of advertising.

I also have to coordinate my parents coming to pick up the family antiques that they prefer be returned to their home, rather than be put in storage. That reminds me, I have to put in a reservation for the U-Haul!

Soul Geek

A few weeks ago, I broke up with my boyfriend, Matthew, of 2 years. I had decided we were no longer compatible, but we still remain friends. In fact, I was hoping he had checked out some other wenches. He had. I was pleasantly surprised where he began his search. He went to http://www.soulgeek.com/. I have to admit, I love geeks. However, I am not geek enough to have much luck on such a site. I thought you may be!

Future Plans

Once the trial is over, I hope to profit off of it in a HUGE way. I would like to have many books (book signings, touring, radio shows, and talk shows), adult sex classes, retreats, & a website dedicated to all things erotic. In my perfect world, perhaps I could have my own radio show. However, the trick to all of that is I have to be found not guilty or have the charges dropped against me, because in my state, a criminal cannot profit off of a crime. Either way, I am sure I can come up with something.

Discovery

I received the discovery of my case early. The discovery is all the information & evidence the prosecution has compiled on the defendant. In it, it says that the whore who was originally arrested signed over her Miranda rights & answered all of the cop’s questions, including giving them all the passwords to her websites & schedulers, which of course makes her an administrator.

My instincts were indeed correct when I chose not to speak to her or the cops, after I was arrested, considering they had already been talking to each other. For anyone who is involved in the industry & who is associating with the original whore, under her new name, please be aware of three things 1) she has no loyalty. 2) She is comfortable talking to the cops. 3) She reacts irrationally in stressful situations. That sounds like a ticking time bomb to me. It’s just another reason for me to be grateful for moving on with my life.